sons from heaven

salam.. hey there again.. well for this post.. i've decided to talk about men and their roles in the family.. well, in case you haven't noticed, i'm a girl.. so what's my bussiness talking bout men's role.. well.. i've been blessed with great men in my life.. from my Abah, and my brothers; Abe and Abe Nal..and my moon..not to mention good and polite guy friends la (overall).. so, i've had a fair share in my knowledge about their important roles in the family.. but today. i want to talk about the roles of sons in the family...

sons will always have more responsibilities towards the family.. either their own small family or their big family.. from taking care of the parents, wife, kids to the responsibilitiest towards other relatives.. all of those things are their roles.. they do get more for their inheritance or harta pusaka but they'll use that for their own family.. for their kids... unlike the ladies, we dont have to share our harta pusaka if we dont want to... (but i believe sharing is loving)..

the sons responsibilities towards their parents are the greatest responsibilities, second to their responsibilities as the Allah's servant.. they are the ones the parents have to rely on when the golden years touched their lives... when the parents are sick, having problems.. the sons are the first line of talian hayat..you might ask me.. so daughters buat ape kalau sons yang buat semua.. i'm not bias and give all the work to the men..but you have to understand this, after the daughters get married, their responsibilities are mainly towards the husband and children.. they do have to take care of their parents too, but unlike men, that part comes in the 3rd place.. what happens if in the family they only have daughters???? haaaaa... then thats a different story a bit la... the daughters have to play both roles i guess.. their husbands need to be supportive too

a son in law is also a son.. they have to be responsible towards their parents in law too.. Allah dah buat cantik dah.. so next time when the son is simply berbakti kepada ibu bapa mereka... you dont even have the right to say they are wrong...

do i pity the men in my life?? well, a little but mostly i'm proud of them.. very proud!!!!!!! and i hope to have sons like them.. minus the naughty part la