fashion kerrr????

Salam.. hello people.. if you are reading my blog, clearly you are bored and have nothing else to do.. hahaha... but i always appreciate your interest in my blog... i have never highlighted this fact before.. i dont do any proofreading when i am blogging.. and my English is not that good but hentam je laaaa... hahaha.. ok... the story begins like this..

i have to admit i am more of myself around girls rather than boys.. sooooooo uncomfortable around guys.. what do you expect, i am a girl... and i am not the type of girl who can just be friends with others especially guys in a 2 seconds conversation... so that explains why my guy friends ni boleh bilang ngan jari je... and honestly, it is always fascinating how the minds of women and men are different... but sometime so similar that it freaks me out a bit.. freaks me out in the sense of "are u sure u are a guy/girl??" hahaha...

so, the other day i have the opportunity to have a good informative chat with my good indian guy friend.. i asked him... "What do you think about the tudung that we all wear?" hehehe... a cliche question i have to say.. but i love to see things from different point of view... so he answered very honestly... "it is what your religious requires so it is cool... but i have to say the style of how the ladies wear tudung or scarfs nowadays are just simply freaking me out!!!! what is with this belit-belit style and letting it loose and wearing those dangling accessories for the tudung?? like seriously???!!! tudung is supposed to be simple right.. it looks nice in just the simple way..." hahaha... i was amazed by his reaction.. i mean he talked like one of those yang memang tak suka perempuan ni tabarruj (berhias secara berlebihan melampaui batas)... so i asked him about the instant tudung yg style Ariani or like what my lecturer mispronounced Arianna( with a Brit accent) hahaha.. dia cakap "it's more suitable for the older people i guess..the plain simple ones are ok.. but yang decorated pelik2 tu cam..i dunno how to say it nicely but if u can, please dont wear it" hahaha.... i kinda like his responses you know... he is living in a big city.. bigger than my hometown.. and he sorts of saw it all.. the styles of hijab... how people wore them too short that seems a bit pointless of actually wearing one..

the greatest and awesome part is my heart's opinion... that the belit-belit ones are just complicated, the word DISLIKE is clearly what he has to say....he prefers the simple ones..which i am going to keep to myself la that points.... i treasure that opinion so much!!!! hehehehe..not the see through 'i-can-see-your-neck-and-ears-and-everything' type la tau!!!!.. but i have to admit my tudung is not really that perfect.. ade yg a bit see through.. huhuhuhu.. honest confession la ni kira..... i wore the shawls sometimes with an inner.. but just once in a blue moon.. because i find it rather suffocating and irrelevant with the usage of a stethoscope.. hahaha... tergeliat kepala ngan tangan nak sumbat stethoscope kalau pakai tudung belit-belit. you might take 20 minutes just to wear it properly with you belit-belit tudung... some people look nice in it and some people just dont care if they dont look nice in it as long as they like it.. but.. seriously... tak perlu la pakai yang pelik-pelik sangat.. i mean, it's ok to let people know that you are fashionable... but not outrageous la...

Islam is about beauty in everything... it never forbids the muslims and muslimahs to be fashionable and well-dressed.. as long as you dont attach your soul to the clothes that you are wearing then, it's okay...unless you are just plainly vain...

how to know if you are plainly vain and outrageously inappropriate fashion freaks???
a) you spend too much time looking at the mirror... dah la doa tengok cermin tak baca... but you manage to spend hours putting on make ups and adding accessories to your tudung yang dah macam sarat dah dengan macam-macam benda... my lecturer said "tak payah la letak make up yg mahal sangat tu.. you are beautiful just like that" hahaha.... cam bruno mars la plak lecturer ni.. pandai bagi ayat cmtu ea dalam lecture...
b)you spend too much money trying to look good in the eyes of others instead of yourself... dah sampai riak pun ada.. and perhiasan tu cam kalau makcik-makcik tu.. emas sampai bahu.. huuuuuuhhhhh... tu yang duk ade mucsle pain tu... pakai barang berat sangat...
c)you are hoping for praises and that people will follow your style... heeessssshhhh
senang cte tabarruj la.. semua nak lebih-lebih tak leh la.. berfesyen la semampu dan sesedarhananya... how to define sederhana??? ada standard guidelines for that??? hurmmm... to make it simple... modesty is something that is allowed in islam, comfortable, affordable, clean, neat, nice, and makes you feel you.. heeeeeee... have a fashionable day people!!!